1. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS
2. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY
No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters
is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive
and forget. The past can't be change. So Focus on the present and the future!
3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES
Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through
its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of
challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse
in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!
4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS
Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some
will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be
patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.
5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR
When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage.
Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness,
Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love,
Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain
your marriage zone.
6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE
There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work,
volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil,
gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car
will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy
circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage... Are you? If you
are, pls pay attention to your marriage.
7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE
He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order
for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1
hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and
encouragement, she can improve.
8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may
change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4
years. You may get marry to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter
after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take
the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with
God by your side, you will smile at last.
9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT
Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple
stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never
threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce
10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your
bank account that you can withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care
into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no
free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.
May God Give You The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth
Marriage.